love = love

It doesn't matter the number it only matters the feel as long as the
heart understands it doesn't matter the age
Although too young can be ignorant old enough has experience if they
feel for you the way you feel for them then that's enough an
understanding is an understatement compared to the link shared between
two distinguished hearts if the war of hurt attacks both and distroys
both equally two "nations" have fallen in the event of the same cause
and suffer equally seperate and together at which point does a puppy
become a dog and a kitten a cat is there a scale that provides us with
such information and if so where can it be found if not is there a
vote by an important party that determines the blossom of such events
if there is no system at all then who's to say that a puppy becomes a
dog at a distinct time or a kitten a cat on an exact date who's to
measure the feel exerted within another persons soul their heart who
is to determine that of the undeterminable who is to decide a heart is
not ready when they do not truly know and the only person who does
know posseses the organ themselves love can be young and love can be
old as long as two hearts share love parallel to their own or
interchangeably then who can argue love is indeed love no matter the
angle or formula used to calculate it

the happiness i know

I lie awake in desperation
Of wanting to feel you here tonight
Stare at the stars
That once filled the sky

Behind these eyelids of mine
Is a picture show of you and I
Holding each other close
In this bed where I sleep alone

Chorus:
I can see the dark in the sun
And only wonder if something is missing
I can feel the sweat on my brow
And swear that I'd still be freezing
The songs of the birds are silent
And as they stay they leave
Flowers drown in snow
Beneath the shade trees
Where leaves don't grow
Is all a part of this happiness I know

I remember all the things I forgot
To say to get you to stay
But what good do words from yesterday
Do you today

The past cannot be rewound
But is yet where I live
Subconciously my love to you
I give
Without admitting and debating
To see you I sit here waiting
But until then...

Chorus:
I can see the dark in the sun
And only wonder if something is missing
I can feel the sweat on my brow
And swear that I'd still be freezing
The songs of the birds are silent
And as they stay they leave
Flowers drown in snow
Beneath the shade trees
Where leaves don't grow
Is all a part of this happiness I know

So lie with me tonight
For just a moment
Until I open my eyes
All I want is
To remember you and me
Dancing in the summer breeze

I'll let you go for now
Cause every prayer comes to end
I will talk to you tomorrow
And see you when Heaven let's me in
But until then...

Chorus:
I'll see the dark in the sun
And only wonder if something is missing
I feel the sweat on my brow
And swear I'm freezing
The songs of the birds will be silent
And as they stay they leave
Flowers drown in snow
Beneath the shade trees
Where leaves don't grow
Is the only happiness I know

Goodnight my love, Amen

only you and i

I know it’s only for a moment,
But I’ll take what I can get
It’s not every day in this sleepy world
I find happiness.

I know you’ll go back
From where you came
And this moment
Won’t mean anything

This is what I know,
And it’s ok
Because right now,
You’re mine today

Chorus:
So hold me tight,
Let me think
It’s only us tonight.
Kiss my lips
And touch me with your fingertips.
I’ll close my eyes,
And make-believe
That this forever,
Is you and I.

Yeah I know this moment will pass,
But I’m not willing to give up so fast.
If I can live in this moment
With you as my girl
I’m going to make you,
My entire world.

I will tell you how I’ll make you smile,
How your heart will race a thousand miles,
Fill you full of butterflies,
Just by looking in my eyes,
If you…

Chorus:
Hold me tight,
Let me think
It’s only us tonight
Kiss my lips
And touch me with your fingertips.
I’ll close my eyes,
And make-believe
That this forever,
Is you and I.


When I leave here tonight,
I’ll put this all behind me,
But we haven’t made it that far,
So put your arms around me.

Chorus:
And hold me tight,
Let me think
It’s only us tonight
Kiss my lips
And touch me with your fingertips.
I’ll close my eyes,
And make-believe
That this forever,
Is you and I.

Yeah I’ll close my eyes,
And make-believe
That this forever,
Is you and I.

second chances

A friend asked me last night, “I don’t believe in second chances when it comes to relationships because there was a reason it didn’t work in the first place right?” I told her, “Well I guess so…it really depends on how you look at it and if people have truly changed.” She said, “I don’t think people change that much …I think their core stays the same once they reach a certain age.” I went on, “Ok…it’s ok to believe that, it’s just that not everyone believes that that’s the problem.” She then states, “True.” I finally send, “It’s really hard to say really, maybe someone, or both people, really screwed up the first time, then had time to realize their mistakes.” The conversation pretty much ended there. What is it really about second chances and relationships? This question has lurked at me before, but last night a friend ignited that fire that long ago dwindled to a small flame. Are second chances real or are they just an excuse to take a trip back down memory lane to remind us why it didn’t work out in the first place? This subject is really difficult to comment on. There is no definite perspective that the vast majority of people claim about second chances and relationships. Everyone seems to have their own opinion both when it directly involves them and when it involves advice given to a friend or relative. I have heard people say, “Man she ain’t no good for you, she hasn’t changed from the day you met her,” or “Girl he ain’t worth your time, he did you wrong once and he will do you wrong again.” But take those same opinionates and put them in the shoes of the people they are talking to. Would they take the same advice they have given their friends or relatives and apply it to their situation as well? Do people take this advice and apply it to their own lives? Sometimes they may, but usually not. We all have the tendency to critique others’ relationships and thrive on giving them “beneficial” advice to leave that “jerk” or “hoe” and think we are making it easier for them. Now lets take a look from their perspective shall we? Go ahead; take a loved one you were in a relationship with or the loved one you are currently with and say, “To hell with a second chance!” “They aren’t worth my time and he/she hasn’t changed or won’t change and I’m giving up, I’m leaving! Is that easy for you to say? Of course it was because they are only words, and words we use in the privacy of our own time or with friends who help you to reach this “conclusion.” Now here is the real question, did you really give up? Did you really leave? Of course not, why in the hell would you leave? Out of these few statements you’ve made about him/her not being worth your time and they never changing, you come up with a million more reasons why you should stay because you know deep inside your heart they have the ability to change and that it’s going to work out. Why do we do this to ourselves? Why do we do this to friends and relatives? Isn’t it almost like we are “kicking them while they are down” so-to-speak? I’ll tell you why we say these things to our friends and relatives, it’s because we care about them and we cannot stand to see them get hurt. It is a friend’s duty, or family’s duty, to keep our loved ones happy. It is our job to be their protective shield and to try and block all threats of harm from reaching the ones we love. We say these things to pull them away from this horrible force that they have found themselves in and try and restore a smile back to their face. Most of all we say these things out of ignorance. We say these things knowing that our friends aren’t going to listen to us, but rather do the complete opposite and give that second chance to the relationship. I’m not saying that it is a bad thing that we try and remove our friends from hurtful situations because that is what we are here for. It is our duty to say these things to let our loved ones know we care and that we discourage all bad from ever happening to them. The truth of the matter is, there are millions of opinions out there, but only one counts and that opinion is the opinion of the one in the situation. We look to our friends for comfort in situations, but in the end it is always the same result. We take our own advice and run with it. Why? Because we are the only ones who know how we truly feel about a situation in our hearts. We are the only ones who can feel what we feel inside. We know that, our friends know that, our relatives know that, hell everyone knows that. Second chances are discretionary, always have been and always will be. There is no “yes” or “no” answer as to if second chances are worthwhile or not. The question of second chances and relationships is a specific question with generalized responses. Next time a friend asks if a second chance with their ex lover is worthwhile go ahead and tell them, “Of course not!” “He/she is not worth it!” But just know (like we always know) that to your friend, he/she is still worth it somewhere deep inside their heart.

tonight i was reminded of you

Tonight I was reminded of you. I found a card that you made me, just shy of us being together for 4 months, stuck between the pages of my guitar for dummies book. It’s been a while, you’ve crossed my mind from time to time, but seeing the card that you made me was almost unbearable, it almost took me back to who I used to be. For a split second there I felt that sharp, intense pain I felt long ago. When all of this happened, I read over the card and it talked about how strong our bond was and how you knew we were going to be able to hold onto everything. The distance would never tear us apart, and you signed it with your famous signature, the one you used all the time, Finally Forever. I’m not sure how I feel right now. Its really weird just thinking about you I just, I can push it away, I know that I’m ok I can just push it away it’s only a thought. But while flipping through this book and coming across this card that you made, it made it difficult, I won’t lie about that. And in another very specific line, you lie awake thinking about me because you know that your search is over…what did we have? Was it so wrong? Did it get that bad? Was it something we couldn’t change? It’s been so long now, honestly I can’t even remember. The count has succeeded my capacity to even reason, which is also sad, when I think about it. I can’t even remember, I can’t even remember how you look. I can’t remember how it felt, but yet after reading that card tonight, it reminded me how I felt, and how it felt to love you and to have you. Lately I’ve been wondering if it was even possible for me to even feel again because after what happened to us I let go of everything of every feeling, I went numb, just completely numb, and now, I’ve come across, this card. Now even the numbest feeling can be overcome by such great pain. I was reminded tonight, how much in love we were. How much of myself you held in the palm of you hands, how much I loved you. That you tell me, why it is, that I can’t remember how it is that you look, but yet I still can’t forget you? How does the hurt sneak back in through all the numbness? Why is it that I wanted to text you tonight but knew it was a bad idea? Why is it that almost did not care that it was a bad idea, and almost did anyway? I tried to tell myself that I could do it just to catch up, just to be friendly, well, you see there blog, you and I both know that’s not true. There’s something deeper inside of me that wanted to, that wanted to call you because I miss you and because for some reason there’s some part of me that still loves you. Things shouldn’t have ended the way they did I know you can’t go back and change the past, that’s not what I’m saying, the past is the past, but I don’t know there was something there, there was way too much there between us for it to come to this. Are we through? Was that the end of our love story? Maybe? Maybe I’m just being crazy? Maybe these ridiculous thoughts enter my mind and I’m just a fool lying here on my bed fatigued of the mind from lack of sleep and bodily sickness? Maybe its coincidence I just decided to pull down this old book off my shelf and flip through the pages and read a little bit of it and found an old card you made me stuck between the pages? Perhaps, that’s what it is? What about God? Think he wanted me to do that? Think God wanted to change that numb feeling I had inside? I don’t know, somehow, put it into my head to go into my closet and reach up on my shelf for this particular book that had you card stuck in it; so that I could “accidentally” find this card that you made me to renew my feelings? To renew that deep down buried depression that I felt, that surreal pain, that hurt, but not only that, the love, the gratitude that we had in the relationship that we shared. Why is it that I feel this way right now? We were going to get married! Was that not meant to be? Was that not for us? Was that not meant for you and for me? We were going to grow old, everything was going to be great, the search was over! You said it yourself! Did that pain really get so unbearable? Was it really easier to walk away than to stay? What, are these feelings? I’ve let you go? Haven’t I? Haven’t I let you go? I mean what else would I be holding onto? I don’t know, I don’t, I don’t know what to say anymore. I really don’t know what to say. I just, I don’t, I don’t understand. You were my butterfly. No kiss ever felt so perfect…our hands…caressed each other with such, meaning. There’s a part of me that understands that sometimes letting go is just the best option, just letting the past be the past, but the other part of me also understands that when you see what we had, refusing to let go makes just as much sense.